Hello you. Looking for your sex drive?
There’s something you need to know first…
… ...there's a good chance you've been taught to think about sexual desire all wrong.*.
Reclaiming Desire
*It’s a bold claim but I stand by it!
For decades, women have been given a pretty simple story about sexual desire:
You either have it or you don't.
And when it disappears, we start wondering what's wrong with us. But there’s so much more to the story than that!
Because once you understand how desire actually works, you can stop treating yourself as the problem and start asking much more useful questions about what's happening.
Ready to learn what’s really going on with your sex drive?
Inside the course:
Reclaiming Desire is a short introduction to six ideas that completely changed the way I understand sexual desire- gathered together so you don't have to disappear down the same research rabbit hole I did.
Exploring these will give you a better understanding of how you actually work when it comes to sex, and a quick, no fluffs overview of female sexual desire.
And (importantly) the course turns these theories into simple reflections and tools to help you apply them to your own experience of desire.
Because I'm not interested in teaching you how to force yourself to want more sex.
I'm much more interested in helping you understand why you want what you want, why you don't want what you don't, and what your desire might be responding to.
It’s the resource I wish I had 10 years ago when my sexual desire first nosedived…
Every lesson is full of advice from experts across the sexual desire space, plus the tips and tools that worked for me, and it is designed to help you tangibly transform your sex + love life not just now but throughout your life.
I wrote it to help you navigate the (inevitable!) ups and downs of sexual desire with more compassion, confidence and understanding. I can’t wait to share it with you!
In this free course, I’ll walk you through:
🧪The true science behind how your sex drive actually works (spoiler alert- it’s not what you think!)
☠️What's causing your desire to dip (and why it makes perfect sense you’re not in the mood!)
⚡Practical tools and fresh perspectives to try out tonight!
By the end, you won’t just think differently about sex and desire. You’ll understand yourself differently. And that changes everything!
From there, you get to decide what — if anything — you want to change.
And if you do want to explore further, I'll show you where to begin.
Ready?
Let's reclaim desire.
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You haven't lost your sex drive.
What if your “sex drive” isn't actually a drive at all? This lesson changes the way we think about wanting sex — and asks what gives us a reason to want it.
What if your “sex drive” isn't actually a drive at all? This lesson changes the way we think about wanting sex — and asks what gives us a reason to want it.
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Desire doesn't always come first
Think you should feel horny before anything sexual begins? Not necessarily. Discover why desire can show up after things get started — and what that means for you.
Think you should feel horny before anything sexual begins? Not necessarily. Discover why desire can show up after things get started — and what that means for you.
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Pleasure is the measure
If desire is about wanting, what makes something worth wanting again? We're exploring pleasure, reward and why the sex itself matters more than how often you want it.
If desire is about wanting, what makes something worth wanting again? We're exploring pleasure, reward and why the sex itself matters more than how often you want it.
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What's pushing your brakes?
Sometimes the question isn't how to turn yourself on — it's what's turning you off. Meet your sexual brakes and accelerators, and start noticing what might be getting in desire's way.
Sometimes the question isn't how to turn yourself on — it's what's turning you off. Meet your sexual brakes and accelerators, and start noticing what might be getting in desire's way.
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99 problems- but is your libido one?
Your desire doesn't exist in a vacuum. Put everything we've learned back into the context of your body, relationships, experiences and actual life — and ask whether your low desire makes sense.
Your desire doesn't exist in a vacuum. Put everything we've learned back into the context of your body, relationships, experiences and actual life — and ask whether your low desire makes sense.
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Where Do We Go From Here?
You understand desire differently. Now what? Bring everything together, decide whether there's actually anything you want to change, and discover where you might want to explore next.
You understand desire differently. Now what? Bring everything together, decide whether there's actually anything you want to change, and discover where you might want to explore next.
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The Five Elements of Desire
Understanding your desire is the beginning. If there's something you'd like to change or explore, the final question is: where do you start?
Understanding your desire is the beginning. If there's something you'd like to change or explore, the final question is: where do you start?
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What You'll LearnExpert-Backed Content
We break things down into simple, manageable parts to build your understanding. As you progress, you’ll gain deeper insights into desire and yourself and how you work when it comes to sexual desire.
Build Confidence
Each lesson is designed to equip you with useful strategies you can immediately put into action, as well as downloadable PDFs full of onwards resources.
Gain Practical Tools
This isn’t about labelling yourself or “fixing” a broken libido. It’s about releasing shame, removing pressure, and seeing low desire as information rather than failure.
Release Shame
You’ll also do a lot of unlearning- discovering outdated ideas of sexual desire that can hold us back, as well as learn new, empowering scripts about sexual desire and how it’s something you have the power to change.
Ditch Old Scripts