I woke up one day back in 2015 and realised that my sex drive had gone from zippy to completely extinguished.

I felt flat, disconnected from myself and the things that made me feel alive, ashamed, and my relationship was suffering. Confused, frustrated, and desperate to understand why my desire had disappeared… I knew I had to get it back.

And so began a 10 year journey to try and rekindle my desire.

I started with what every self-respecting millennial would do and spent hours googling. I found some decent resources, but a LOT of quick fixes and articles that didn’t really seem to speak to my experience.

Eating more oysters or taking a trip to Ann Summers didn’t feel the right way to get back my “vulva-voom”.

So I carried on the search and ended up in some really interesting spaces.

Over the past decade I’ve read SO many books, taken numerous courses, researched sexual desire, joined forums, talked to friends, explored tantra, taoism, sex magik, somatic practices, belly dancing… even drank sex coffee (yes, really).

And along the way, I had some major breakthroughs (you can read more about these in my blog) and I learned SO much about desire that has made my entire experience make sense. And it was information I wished I had LONG ago that would’ve helped me understand all about myself and how I experience desire.

I don’t pretend to be an expert in this area, and I’m still a work in progress myself (!), but I wanted to bring all of what I’ve found together in one place to give other women the shortcut for what has taken me years to find.

This website is dedicated firstly to the me ten years ago- who was so hungry for this information- and now to YOU and any woman who wants to take control of her sexual desire.

I want to shout from the rooftops about what I learned, which are the BEST resources, tools, practises and frameworks on sexual desire from experts from a huge variety of backgrounds.

And YOU can use this information to revolutionise your sex life too.

This isn’t about quick fixes, pills, or gimmicks- it’s about understanding desire, reclaiming confidence, and enjoying sex on your own terms.

​​If your sex drive isn’t where you’d like it to be and you’re wondering what on earth to do about it- or you’re curious to discover how to feel desire again- then this site is a rather good place to begin.

​Because TBH… what I found was pretty amazing.

​​And I’m SO excited to share it with you.

Let’s do this!

Laura xx

P.S. Sending you so much love on what can feel a lonely journey, and I’m so glad you’ve found us… because now you’re not alone and we can do this together 💌