Hello you.
Looking for your sex drive?.
Welcome to Desired State.
Hi, I’m Laura.
And I lost my sex drive too!
(*Sounds like the beginning of us introducing ourselves in some kind of rubbish secret support group- like a version of Fight Club where we’re just not interested in having any sex!)*
Ten years ago I woke up and realised I hadn’t wanted sex in a very long time, and I thought that I was broken.
I used to want sex, I used to enjoy it, but now I felt so empty and disconnected that I wondered if I’d ever want sex again….
And this had a huge impact on my life. My confidence, my relationship, the connection to myself- even how alive I felt in general.
Over the last ten years, the journey to finding myself again (and a whole new sex education) has been life-changing. And now I want to shout from the rooftops about what I found…
So I created Desired State as a space to capture the best tools and expert advice that I found to help women reignite sexual desire- so that you can use it to transform your sex + love life too!
If you’re here looking for your sex drive, there’s something you need to know first...
It’s very likely that almost everything you’ve been taught about sexual desire isn’t true.
It’s a bold claim but I stand by it!
Want to learn what’s really going on with your sex drive? Sign up to my Reclaiming Desire Course (did I mention it’s completely free?) and you can expect to:
Discover the true science behind how your sex drive actually works (spoiler alert- it’s not what you think!)
Gain clarity on what's causing your desire to dip (and why it makes perfect sense you’re not in the mood!)
And walk away with a practical pathway for how YOU can want sex again!
I’d love to walk you through what I found and how it can help you restore your sense of excitement and energy around sex- either again or for the very first time 🩷
My Philosophy
"Half of women have a low sex drive. So maybe the problem isn't women- it's our view of sexuality"- Sarah Barmak.
